WHOLLY HIS: Becoming a Woman of Integrity & Valor | Week 1- Motives Behind Deeds

WEEK 1 – MOTIVES BEHIND DEEDS

PREP & PONDER (For Before the Study Session)

• What’s one good thing you’ve done lately? Why did you do it?

• Do you think motives matter to God, even if the outcome looks right to others?

• Has anyone ever misjudged your actions? Have you ever misjudged someone else’s?

THEME 1: MOTIVES

In the kingdom of God, what drives us matters just as much as what we do. Motives are the invisible roots beneath every visible action—the inner compass that directs our choices, relationships, and obedience. While people may applaud the outward deed, God examines the heart behind it. This theme invites us to examine not only our behavior, but the beliefs, fears, and desires that fuel it. To walk in true integrity, we must allow the Holy Spirit to uncover the hidden “why” behind our “what,” aligning our hearts with His truth so that our lives bear fruit from a pure and surrendered place.

WEEKLY FOCUS: 

What drives what we do?
This week invites us to pause and look beneath the surface. We’re not just examining our actions—we’re examining the engine behind them. Is it love or fear? Surrender or striving? Integrity begins where motive is made known. When we allow God to expose and refine the why behind the what, our lives begin to reflect authenticity instead of performance—and transformation instead of appearance.

KEY SCRIPTURE

 Jeremiah 17:10 (ESV)
“I the Lord search the heart and test the mind, to give every man according to his ways, according to the fruit of his deeds.”

KEYWORD STUDY

“Search”

Jeremiah 17:10 – “I the Lord search the heart and test the mind…”

  • Hebrew Word: חָקַר (chaqar)

  • Pronunciation: khaw-kar’

  • Strong’s Concordance: H2713

Definition:
– To search out, examine deeply
– To investigate, probe
– To explore or dig into

Biblical Usage:
This verb paints the image of God as a divine investigator—one who goes beneath the surface to uncover what lies beneath. He doesn’t merely observe our behavior; He digs into the depths of our inner life, motives, and thought patterns. It's not a casual look, but an intentional exploration.

  • Psalm 139:1 – “O Lord, you have searched me and known me.”

  • Proverbs 20:27 – “The spirit of man is the lamp of the Lord, searching all his innermost parts.”

“Motives”

Jeremiah 17:10 (conceptual) – “...to give every man according to his ways…”

  • Hebrew Root Word (related): עֵצָה (etsah) – while not directly used in this verse, it's related to counsel, intent, or purpose.

  • Also tied to: לֵב (leb) – the heart, the seat of motives and inner decision-making

  • Strong’s Concordance: H6098 (etsah), H3820 (leb)

Definition:
– Purpose, plan, intent, inward thoughts
– The inner reasoning that leads to outward actions

Biblical Insight:
Motives aren’t always expressed in words—but they are always visible to God. Scripture shows us that the heart is the birthplace of both good and evil actions. Our motives are shaped by what we truly believe, desire, or fear.

  • 1 Chronicles 28:9 – “...the Lord searches every heart and understands every motive behind the thoughts.”

  • Hebrews 4:12 – “...it judges the thoughts and attitudes of the heart.”

“Deeds”

Jeremiah 17:10 – “...according to the fruit of his deeds.”

  • Hebrew Word: מַעֲלָל (ma‛alal)

  • Pronunciation: mah-al-awl’

  • Strong’s Concordance: H4611

Definition:
– Practices, actions, behaviors
– Works that are produced or carried out
– Often used to describe repeated conduct (good or evil)

Biblical Insight:
Deeds are the fruit that grows from the root of motive. They are what others see—but not always what God honors. Scripture reminds us that deeds alone aren’t enough; they must flow from a heart aligned with God’s will.

  • Proverbs 24:12 – “Does he who weighs the heart not perceive it? Does not he who keeps watch over your soul know it? And will he not repay man according to his work?”

  • Revelation 2:23 – “...I am he who searches mind and heart, and I will give to each of you according to your works.”

WEEK 1 TEACHING POINTS: MOTIVED BEHIND DEEDS

1. God Is Not Impressed by Deeds Alone—He Examines the Motive

Jeremiah 17:10; Matthew 6:1–4

Even the most outwardly “righteous” act means nothing if it’s fueled by selfish ambition or a desire for applause. God weighs the heart, not just the hands.

2. Motives Can Be Mixed—and That’s Why We Need the Holy Spirit

Psalm 139:23–24; Hebrews 4:12

Sometimes we obey out of love, but fear or pride sneaks in too. The Holy Spirit doesn’t shame us for this—He gently exposes our “why” and invites us to bring it into alignment with truth.

3. Integrity Begins in the Heart, Not Just in Behavior

Proverbs 4:23; 1 Samuel 16:7

Integrity isn’t about always “doing the right thing” in public—it’s about being the same person in private. A pure heart leads to lasting fruit because it flows from sincerity, not performance.

4. Good Deeds Done for the Wrong Reasons Can Still Lead to Spiritual Burnout

Galatians 6:9; Revelation 2:2–4

Doing good to be seen, needed, or validated eventually leads to exhaustion and resentment. When our works are not rooted in intimacy with God, they become burdens instead of blessings.

5. God Rewards Purity Over Performance

Matthew 5:8; 1 Corinthians 4:5

We may gain applause for our deeds here—but only God sees and rewards the hidden purity of heart. His reward is deeper: transformation, intimacy, and eternal significance.

MODERN APPLICATION

Today, “good” deeds are everywhere—on social media, in churches, in our homes, and workplaces. But so is pride. We live in a culture that often values visibility over sincerity, and it’s easy to get caught up in appearances while neglecting authenticity.

We may post our generosity, record our service, or talk about our obedience—but God is not looking for publicity; He’s looking for purity.

We can:

  • Give to a ministry out of genuine love for God… or to feel important.

  • Offer encouragement to a friend… or to earn validation in return.

  • Lead a Bible study… or use it as a platform to gain attention.

The deed might look holy, but only God knows whether it was fueled by love, pride, fear, or insecurity.

“People may be pure in their own eyes, but the Lord examines their motives.”
Proverbs 16:2, NLT

“Each one's work will become manifest... and the fire will test what sort of work each one has done.”
1 Corinthians 3:13, ESV

That’s why the Holy Spirit is essential in this journey. He doesn't expose our motives to shame us—He does it to refine us.

Ask yourself:

  • Is this for God’s glory or my own recognition?

  • Am I obeying out of joyful surrender or fearful obligation?

  • Am I trying to prove something… or reflect Someone?

We don’t need to strive to look spiritual. We need to be surrendered.

Let the Spirit search your heart. He’s not condemning you—He’s calling you deeper.

Not just to do more.
Not just to be seen.
But to live from love, by truth, and for God.

SPIRITUAL WARFARE TRUTH

The enemy doesn’t just tempt you to do bad things.
He tempts you to do good things for the wrong reasons—so they lose eternal value.
He whispers:
“Serve so they’ll praise you.”
“Help so they’ll depend on you.”
“Give so you feel less guilty.”
“Do it so you look like a ‘good Christian.’”

But God whispers back:
“Serve because I served.”
“Give because I gave.”
“Love because I first loved you.”

The motive behind your deed is the real battlefield.

DISCUSSION QUESTIONS (for groups or journaling)

• Why do you think it’s so easy to perform for approval?

• How do pride and fear disguise themselves in good deeds?

• What does true humility look like in action?

• Have you ever done something purely from love or obedience? What did that feel like?

• How can we help each other live from pure motives without becoming judgmental?

INSIGHT FOR WEEK 1
When God says He “searches the heart,” He’s not making a casual observation—He’s performing heart surgery. He examines the root beneath every fruit, the why beneath every what. Our deeds may impress others, but it is the unseen intentions that God weighs.

“I the Lord search the heart and test the mind, to give every man according to his ways, according to the fruit of his deeds.”
Jeremiah 17:10, ESV

Spiritual integrity is not just about doing good—it’s about being real.

God isn’t looking for performance. He’s not after perfectly filtered faith.
He desires hearts that are open, honest, and willing to be refined.

That means:

  • We don’t need to hide the fact that our motives are sometimes messy.

  • We can bring Him the parts of us that are unsure, insecure, or seeking approval.

  • We can ask, “Lord, show me what’s really driving me here—and change me from the inside out.”

“Blessed are the pure in heart, for they shall see God.”
Matthew 5:8

Purity doesn’t mean flawlessness.
It means a heart postured toward truth—one that welcomes God's searchlight instead of resisting it.

So let Him dig. Let Him reveal. Let Him reorder your motives.
He doesn’t do it to shame you—but to shape you.

Because when the root is healthy, the fruit will follow.

WEEKLY SCRIPTURE READING

Read these passages slowly and prayerfully this week. Look for how each one reveals something about God’s heart for our motives, the hidden places, and the truth behind our actions.

• Jeremiah 17:5–10

• Matthew 6:1–4

• Hebrews 4:12

• Proverbs 21:2

• 1 Corinthians 4:5

REFLECT & RESPOND (For After Study Session)

• What’s one “good thing” you’ve done recently that may have had mixed motives?

• Have you ever been convicted after doing something for selfish reasons, even if it looked holy?

• What are the deeper patterns you see in your motives—pride, fear, approval, obligation?

• How can you begin inviting the Holy Spirit into your decision-making before you act?

• What does it look like to act from love rather than for validation?







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